Meet the Wedding Guys

Part theater directors, part curators of trend, The Wedding Guys® – Matthew Trettel and Bruce Vassar – elegantly and artistically showcase new ways to create unforgettable experiences. By weaving together trends and modern tradition, they inspire couples and wedding specialists to create exceptional celebrations. The Wedding Guys actively work with artisans, designers and producers who are trend-setting leaders in their respective fields. Their fun, energetic personalities, keen eye for detail, and passionate love for all things wedding gives couples a fresh new approach to wedding planning. The Wedding Guys bring years of industry knowledge and trend-forward expertise to couples—making them leading authorities on wedding celebrations. They associate and collaborate with international couture bridal gown designers—keeping a pulse on fashion trends. They are recognized internationally for their innovative approach to such a traditional and emotional celebration of life. They have been featured in Inside Weddings magazine, Special Events magazine and Today’s Groom magazine. They are also celebrity contributors to the WeddingAces blog and Star bloggers at

Each year they create The Wedding Directory,™ a 400-page wedding planner published by Twin City Bridal Association. This tool helps couples think beyond the norm and create a wedding that is uniquely their own. Twin City Bridal Association offers The Wedding Directory free to couples planning their wedding. The Wedding Directory can be ordered online at or by calling 952-WEDDING (933-3464). It is also given as a gift to brides attending The Wedding Fair.™

The Wedding Guys answer thousands of questions from around the world each year as part of their online Q&A which is available online at Questions range from wedding day etiquette to how to handle stressful family situations.

Three times a year they work to produce The Wedding Fair for Twin City Bridal Association. This one-of-a-kind event features exhibits and themed areas designed to inspire ideas for your wedding. The Wedding Guys also design and host three one-of-a-kind events. The “Love Is A Cure Breast Cancer Benefit,” held in February, features a silent auction of wedding items donated by industry experts. “The Engagement Party,” held in November, focuses on engaged couples and features a talk show format on the hottest and most requested topics. Twin City Bridal Association’s yearly “Trend Wedding” has become The Wedding Guys’ signature international award-winning event and the most celebrated wedding giveaway in the country. One lucky couple will win a wedding designed especially by The Wedding Guys; a dream wedding featured in the local and national media. Trend Wedding has been featured in Inside Weddings, a national bridal magazine, and awarded the international ISES Esprit Award for “Best Wedding.”

The Wedding Guys are passionate about the wedding industry and the joy a wedding celebration brings. This same passion drives Trettel and Vassar to devote their personal time to charity. From meeting one-on-one with couples over dinner, to answering questions or giving creative insight, to actually planning an entire wedding, their donations have raised thousands of dollars for local charities. Last year they were featured on Discovery Channel’s ‘Miracle Weddings’ for the wedding they donated to Mercedes Gorden, a 35W bridge survivor, and her fiancé, Jake Rudh.